Overcoming Side-talks.

If their Better Halves are not in the same class as you or as special as you, invariably,  they are not in the best position or the best fit to lecture you, or gossip about, or make side talks about who the pieces fit for you. It is common sense. It takes enlightenment to know the enlightened. In the same vein, it takes a beautiful heart to discern beauty in others or make judgments about what is beautiful. You can't give what you don't have. Kingship is in the blood. Not invented. Folks, don't be at war with your instinct, but with the apostles of side talks around you.